This time last year, I had a completely different perception of food. During my pregnancy, feeding my cravings was my happy place. I specifically remember going through the drive-threw of our local Mexican Food hole in the wall. I had ordered enough food to feed a small family. After paying the cashier, he asked me if I needed more than 1 set of eating utensils. Proudly I declined. I was eating two; myself and my id.
Eat to fuel your body. Not feed your emotions.
– My best version
Fast forward to August 2020. I was now sitting around low 170’s lbs. During my pregnancy with Chandler, I gained 54 lbs, but by 6 months postpartum, I lost 50 lbs. My secret? Some good old self-love and the reprogramming of the way I saw food.
There were 4 simple steps that I took to start changing the way I saw food:
- I started eating intuitively. All foods have a serving size, and not all calories have the exact macros—for example, a serving of 100 calories of quinoa vs. 100 calories of cheese puffs. It’s like comparing Tiffany Diamonds to Clare’s…they just are not made the same.
- Drink more water. Stomach growling? Was a hungry or just thirsty? I began to drink a liter of water a day. Not only did I notice that my lips were not as chapped, but I stayed fuller for longer. My digestion also improved, and the motion in my intestinal ocean regulated.
- Leading by example. I am currently breastfeeding, so what I ate, the baby ate. I would notice when I ate certain foods, the baby would be affected by it. Once I started to see food as the fuel to help my baby grow and be healthy, my food relationship began to change. I added more veggies to my diet, I stopped buying overly processed food, and I GrubHubbed takeout less frequently.
- Holding off on Netflix and Chill until after mealtime. I stopped eating in front of the TV. When I would eat while watching TV, distracted by binge-worthy HGTV shows, I ended up eating more. Instead, I used the opportunity to bond with my baby. I attached his high chair to the kitchen island, and we share food time together. Momma doesn’t eat the extra calories, and the baby seems happier too. Win-win!
Small steps like these are what will eventually have a significant impact. I hope these steps are the stepping stones to reprogramming how you see foods and ultimately lead to a healthier you.

Yours Truly,
Monday